Wonderful idea and thread, Dust to Dust! All the wonderful people on this thread have already gave you some wise, wonderful suggestions so I won't add much more, especially since nothing original comes to mind at the moment Perhaps you could try to eat at some nice place, like a Chinese or Japanese restaurant! I've heard that there's good fodd there and that it should be pretty cheap to eat there. Perhaps you could try that! Please do consider it if you can and want! I'm so sorry, I wish I've had more advice to give to you! I completely agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given lots of great, wonderful advice on this thread! I'd suggest to follow it if you can! Let us know how your dates go! I'm sure your wife will REALLY appreciate your efforts and the fact that you're putting all of this effort into making something nice for her! I'm SURE it will be worth it! Please keep us updated as much as you can and let us know how it goes! Please don't feel guilty about making "negative" threads, you have every right to vent and write here just as much as everyone else and it doens't bother us AT ALL! You know we won't judge you! I promise you that! Like I've said, I really appreciate your idea and this thread and I'm sure everyone will appreciate as well! I'm sure it will help many other people as well! I hope it will encourage and inspire many other people to do something similar to what you've suggested! Thank you so much for making this thread! It's truly amazing and wonderful! Thank you so much everyone for taking part in it and sharing so many wonderful advice and suggestions! You're amazing, kind, strong, wonderful people! Remember that we're here for you if you need it! Feel free to PM me anytime! Let me know if I can do something to help you! Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes! Sending many hugs to you and your wife, Dust to Dust, and to everyone else, especially all of you wonderful people here on CP! You're all awesome, strong warriors! YOU ALL ROCK!