((((Kiya)))))
I am so sorry that you are in so much pain.

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i've been crying for about 12 hours over this

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I totally understand. Of course, I have no advice for you as I'm totally clueless in this area. I'll let you know what my T says about it since this is supposed to be a main topic of conversation. Hopefully that will help.

I have learned that my communication skills when it comes to disagreements suck! I had a whole conversation with another teacher where I kept trying to tell her that I was on her side. When I told T what I said, about everything I said was something I shouldn't have said. I think I speak swahili or something. Then it goes downhill from there. Then the power struggle and so on. I hope I learn how to deal with this. However, I kind of like what I did three years ago when I was just fed up and told everyone just to %#@&#! off.

Can you tell us more? (If you want) LOL, maybe I can help you. I'll give you advice and you do the EXACT opposite of what I say, Okay? LOL

Please take care of yourself!