Yes yes and yes! I am 47 and my boyfriend is 57 and I can certainly tell you that there is ZING!!!! We are like two hormonally charged animals when we are around each other (as well as tender and loving and smitten) Neither of us are candidates for "The world's sexiest" from a societal standard but we find each other to be everything we ever dreamed of. I am twice married before and he lost his wife of 36 years to cancer (she was diagnosed with emphysema and continued to smoke 2 packs a day for 10 years more) We were friends thru work and helped each other through very difficult times and then decided to see if there was more to our friendship. He is now and forever will be my destiny. We have the usual growing pains in an intimate relationship but we have vowed to keep the lines of comunication open and working. THAT to me is the key to ZINGING. The less misunderstandings and unresolved issues the more you can enjoy each other. Well we also have tremendous chemistry too. I had no chemistry with my ex and although we tried to make a valiant go of it he was more like my brother than my spouse. I wish you love in YOUR quest for Zing!

Hugs,
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