if you post those type of postings in the womens forum there wont be any problem with men responding to what you feel that you have to vent. i personally find generalizations that all of any group does any particular thing or feels a particular way to be simplistic and does not take into account all the shades of grey. I agree with sky i dont see how that type of lashing out at everyone in a group helps anyone to heal, But knock yourself out in the womens forum if thats what you want to do. If you put those posts in other threads then you have to expect fallout.