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Originally Posted by platipusjack
She's a free soul and she wants to do new things all the time. I want her to be who she is, but I just want to know what's happening in her life. She may or may not find someone in the future and I want to be there for her until then or forever. She said several times that she likes being single and told me not to come to that "space", whatever that means. I have no intention of interfrreing in her life, but I want to make sure everything goes well with her and I don't want her to be used by anyone, sexually or mentally in ANY WAY AT ALL.
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Your first priority as a husband, is not her, but your wife.
It is not your job to protect her, but it is your job to protect your wife.
If you want to look out for her in general, and give her some advice as a friend, that's fine.
But anything beyond that, takes away from the total commitment you owe your wife.