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Originally Posted by platipusjack
Is this some sort of a PTSD kinda situation or am I falling in love with her or I have no idea what the hell I am going through. I still see her as the closest friend that I have.
This is affecting both of our lives seriously now.
We have so much to look forward to and need to build a company over the next few years and that too is looking really well. Mentally, for me, what makes me happier is knowing where she is, what she is dealing with, etc.
I never wanted to be like that, but after this experience in India last year, I changed!
Any advice would be highly appreciated.
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It sounds like you should divorce your wife and pursue a relationship with this other woman. If you see her as a closer friend than your wife is to you, that's a sign that staying in your marriage is the wrong thing to do, even if it's for financial dependency reasons.
Your wife deserves to know the truth. You owe her the truth.
You can't have your cake and eat it to. I mean, you can try as many others do, but eventually the truth will come out and there will be consequences.
I don't think this situation has anything to do with your PTSD or depression, although it can definitely affect both of those mental health conditions poorly.