You can’t help but have acquaintances. They are people who know who you are, say hello when you meet, but don’t do anything with. They don’t know much of anything about you beyond the basics that are obvious to all.

I have two friends now, having eliminated the other one who was toxic. I never had any issues with either one of these nice friends. I have confided in them my traumatic issue, but I’m careful to not overwhelm them with my problems. This is also a give and take where I ask and listen to them about their stuff as well. But mostly when we talk or get together we just have a good time. That’s the glue that keeps a friendship.

You have to make as much effort as they do. Call fairly often and care about them and if they are a good friend it will be mutual.

It feels wonderful to have at least one nice friend. Every day is another opportunity to make one. Just find something in common.