I love the at home spa idea! I think that is genius! I'm actually a female. My partner is a female as well and she's more into masculine things but I do find that she occasionally slips on a face mask and enjoys it lol! My main motive for this post was to get some general ideas..dates I could DIY. We live in a rural upstate ny area so our town does not have many things to do, places to really go to and so forth. There are things every now and then like the county fair or wine or beer festivals in the summer but we're limited!