Is this projection? I often run these mental movies where another person is being overly critical of some simple task I'm engaged in. Often it's an old woman, a motherly type giving guidance. Like " okay now flip the egg over slowly, easy now. Watch it! too close to the edge of the pan."

Are these attitudes I have towards other people? As in they are poor drivers, can't speak clearly, have some annoying habit etc. Is this saying I need to be a more accepting, patient person-of me and others?