So being unfaithful (you said you had sexual encounter with this other woman), keeping your relationship with this woman secret from your wife, and secretly (unbeknownst to your wife) willing this woman large sums of money does not make you lose your faith in humanity, but our opinions about it do? Do you think what you are doing with this woman is the right thing to do? If yes, how so? You don’t think that it’s not appropriate for a married man to act this way?