Me and my bf have kind of been having differences but after a talk, I realized what the real issue is...
I am totally smothering. He told me I am so smothering that it is preventing him from wanting to be with me all the time..a lightbulb went off...how many of you guys can relate?
I am smothering with texts, calls. If he doesn’t respond I send a text back asking if he’s ok...I am now aware this behavior won’t allow us to become closer...he likes his space and doesn’t want an anxious girlfriend who will freak if he sometimes can’t hang out when I want to.
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