She sounds obnoxious. We all had a “pleasure” of meeting annoying people at some point. Not sure if it’s in your job description to converse with her and sharing your personal stories, if not it’s probably better to not engage with her at all.

I do have a question about the following quote from your post “When is society finally going to put this kind of passive aggressive, but very nearly aggressive, behavior by women in its place? “

Why is it important that she is a woman as obnoxious people can be of either gender? And why collective “women”?

Also why do you think society needs to be dealing with passive aggressive coworkers (or not even coworkers in your work place)? Why do you see it as a society issue? And how do you think society could make annoying inappropriate people to be less annoying and less inappropriate? Do you think society has such power?