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Originally Posted by Nowinners
I like Sarahsweets advice about offering to help. I have always avoided large cliques and had a small group of friends. I don't think I was in the "cool" group and told myself I liked it that way! Also, I sometimes would drink too much to ease my anxiety when put into a situation like you are describing. I like Divine's advice to just try to find one person to get to know. If it were me, I wouldn't even try to find acceptance with the entire group but there has to be someone in that group who you find likable and vice versa. It does sound uncomfortable.  |
Thank you, nowinners! I appreciate your reply and thoughts. I am more like you.. and I prefer smaller social settings. I, too, have had too much to drink when I feel uncomfortable. There is one woman I mentioned who is friendlier so I may try to cozy up to her and talk to her more. She’s really nice! I’ve liked her since the moment I met her.