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Originally Posted by Miss P
All I had to add is, oh, yes....I've felt this way as well, for a very long time indeed. It's thanks to you Guys, Pc, things are making a lot of sense for me, like never before. An old herapist touched briefly on the subject, but, backed off when I tried to go deeper into it. My family have made it abundantly clear, I chat rubbish, for most of my life. Not all, but robustly enough....needless to say, I'll never bring up any suspicions I have, about the fact that, imo, I believe our family, have been plagued with CEN for generations. I digress, thanks for letting me vent. I've distanced myself from a lot of people in my life....not quite sure that's dealing, it works for me.
Thank you for this post! Hugs and all the best x
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I can relate to this. I have looked back and analyzed multiple generations in my family to understand why my parents were so woefully inept.
I am very curious as to why your therapist avoided a deeper discussion?? Do you know why?
My therapist (in the past) said I never developed a sense of "constancy" when I was a young child and that is where the disconnect came from. I don't know. She also never explained it in any depth or talked about strategies to develop constancy in adulthood. Perhaps that's no possible so they don't get into it? I have no idea. If this rings a bell with anyone, feel free to jump in.
Also, Miss P, thank you for sharing your truth. It helps me. If you don't feel like elaborating on your other post, no problem
Entirely up to you though I'd love to discuss further.