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Originally Posted by SilverTrees
...it's a very unpleasant feeling.
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Hi Silver Trees. I was thinking more about this. I, too, was emotionally neglected in my childhood. I learned in my adult years to feed myself all the love and affirmation I never received as a child. I worked on my self-esteem and on feeding it.
Now I realize that may not seem to relate to a sense of emptiness, but it's what helped me to fill that void, in addition to all that I mentioned previously.
The void for me I think had to do with not feeling truly loved or appreciated for who I am. So I learned to love and appreciate myself, and that love grew over the years. It did take therapy, which helped, but I also worked on it by myself for a long time.
I think when we can truly love ourselves, we feel more full, within ourselves and within our lives. Kind of like a spiritual level of "fullness".
I could be totally off-based here since I am relating my own sense of emptiness to yours, and yours could be very different than mine, but since you mentioned childhood neglect, it dawned on me that I had gone through the same thing as a kid.
Just some food for thought!!! HUGS!
