They don't want to help you. I have accepted this. I mostly now read up on health topics myself and take care of myself. On occasion I can't... ie. the recent root canal I had but, before I got that I went to three different dentists to make sure I had no choice.

I collect my records after every visit.

I sometimes purchase blood tests on my own.

I sometimes look up symptoms of things that will get the test I am looking for the take the symptoms.

I even do this for my cat as I have found the vets to imho, not care a lick about me or my cat and seem perfectly happy to torture me and my cat.

Currently, it is a bit of a war and I am using guerrilla tactics to keep me and my cat in the best shape we can possibly be.