I offer a lot as a friend.
- I know stuff so I usually have good ideas they haven't heard before.
- I make special effort to listen even when I don't want to.
- I am funny and typically make them laugh.
- I am usually available.

What I look for in a friend (but typically never get)
- something in common that we are kind of the only ones.
- kindness.
- a compliment to me, more extroverted etc.
- available to me when I want.
- listens to me (or pretend to) when I want to complain.

Starting to wonder if there are any friends left. Excessively hard to find anyone lately that wants to listen for even 5 minutes.