Some things I don’t think we ever really “just get over it”

I think this is a safe place to talk about your concerns without being judged. As someone else said, it’s more about processing the loss... something I’ve struggled with as there aren’t many who listen without jumping in to judge (in real life)..

I think your feelings are “normal” (not that I know what “normal” means) and that you’re taking a healthy step by posting here. There is no time scale, no enforced limits for grieving a loss, and divorced parents is definitely a loss.