I’m not making assumptions before we are able to talk..but just my gut. He is not really romantic, doesn’t hold my hand in public and doesn’t compliment me unless he’s drinking. He always puts his friends first and I get a couple days out of the week and sometimes only once. But he will hang out with friends every free chance he gets. Weather is nice and he never initiates an outing but will hang out with his friend or friends. He was in my neighborhood but didn’t bother to ask to hang. Then he tells me he feels a disconnect between us and where we come from..I don’t know what can be done. He doesn’t seem willing to make any effort