From your other thread in this forum, I think it's best that you break up with him. He is avoiding spending time with you, he doesn't show affection towards you except when he's drunk, and he prioritizes his friends over you, his girlfriend. Yep. I think it's time to say goodbye to this guy. Sometimes it takes a while to find out both people are just not compatible like they initially thought they were. I think in your case, you were smoothing him b/c he already treated you like an option. And, so, you smothered him, hoping that would force him to treat you like a priority. But, that backfired on you and now he just completely ignores you. I know it's hard, but you need to let this guy go. Make yourself available to another guy who actually IS interested in you, who will treat you like a priority and then you won't feel the need to overreact by smothering to get attention. Does that make sense?

Why date a guy who doesn't make any effort or show any interest in being with you? That's not even healthy.