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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71
I’m not making assumptions before we are able to talk..but just my gut. He is not really romantic, doesn’t hold my hand in public and doesn’t compliment me unless he’s drinking. He always puts his friends first and I get a couple days out of the week and sometimes only once. But he will hang out with friends every free chance he gets. Weather is nice and he never initiates an outing but will hang out with his friend or friends. He was in my neighborhood but didn’t bother to ask to hang. Then he tells me he feels a disconnect between us and where we come from..I don’t know what can be done. He doesn’t seem willing to make any effort
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I'm so sorry.... that truly sucks. I feel for you, I do. I've been through many breakups of my own.
It seems like he's trying to tell you in his own way that it's over. I know it may hurt and can be very painful to break up with someone, but I agree with the above poster. You can now be available to someone who will prioritize you and who doesn't make you chase them. Try to think of it from that perspective. Now you can be free to find someone more suitable and compatible with you. I'm very sorry it hasn't worked out though. It can be very disappointing. HUGS.
