So his friends are all very tight with each other. They've welcomed me into their group, but whenever there's a gathering, I've noticed the women kind of stick with each other and don't bother trying to get to know me at all.

They call themselves a "family"... a large family, and a welcoming family at that, but I don't feel that's really the truth.

There's one woman in particular who is very stand off-ish with me, and I cannot figure out what's up or why. I don't know if she simply immediately disliked me because I tried to make conversation with her once at her house. My attempt to talk to her seemed to have flopped and failed miserably. She seemed disinterested. The obvious answer is to keep being friendly and just be myself, but I feel like they're being kind of cliquish. I am not like that at all, so I really don't know what to do or how to handle it? Usually, I have just stuck by my fiance's side the whole time, and every time he has left to go have a cigarette, I follow him because I don't want to be left alone with the women, feeling left out.