So now my “boyfriend” is saying a break this weekend will tell us what’s going on. I told him he doesn’t know how to handle a good woman. Both of his exes were not good women (his own mother was worried) well, I don’t get men. You had bad partners but then you have a good one and you don’t know how to handle it. I know part of the problem is I’m always so accommodating..cooking dinner every week etc., I am initiating too much contact, and we do the same thing every week. Hang out at his house Friday, drink, listen to music, then I cook until he passes out on his bed..does he think that’s a turn on? I have to undress him, etc. We’re supposed to talk later but honestly I don’t think i want to. What else needs to be said? I have a lot to offer someone who is worthy and deserving of my love and attention and it’s not him! We agreed to take a break for the weekend but I’m not reaching out to him. And I’m also not remaining friends if it doesn’t work out. For what? He’s not doing me any favors. He Doesn’t have much to offer me as it is. Not romantic, nor very affectionate (even before this problem), drinks too much, 45 and still wants to hang out like he’s 21..and he wonders why he can’t find anyone who is wife material. Karma will give him his.