I just want to add that you need to find out why YOU have been drawn into this kind of toxic relationship. It's important to actually LEARN about this kind of relationship and WHY being involved with someone that engages themselves the way they do is something you need to pay attention to so you don't repeat getting involved with someone else that is unhealthy for you. Is there alcoholism in your own family? Did you father have a problem and your mother became an enabler and codependent?

Also, what about you, what do you do in your own life? Do you also drink and set yourself up for this kind of unhealthy relationship where you become an enabler and codependent? You don't have to answer this question here either, the one who needs to know this answer isn't me but YOU.