UPDATE: I think what I wrote is being misunderstood. I help out every month without any pressure from him. I do this because I WANT TO. There are times when partners need money like when they've suddenly lost their job, or an unexpected emergency comes up. He is responsible with his money and, in fact has excellent credit. My co-signing concerns are more of what I would legally bound myself to if we're not even legally committed yet. Does that make sense?? [emoji2372]