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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71
he is a real jerk. He straight up told me he doesn’t want intimacy with me anymore and he doesn’t feel the same way he used to. I found out he asked for advice so now I see how this is coming out of left field. Trying to say there are cultural differences. Well if he really cared, that wouldn’t have ever mattered. He also claims he was getting bored with us just hanging out every Friday and getting blasted. He never said anything about wanting to do something else. I agreed to take Soave but I’m making myself look desperate and foolish like I can’t get another guy. He’s letting people put a bug in his ear, so he deserves to be alone
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I'm so sorry Gymgirl but you're still not getting it.
I don't know how to gently tell you this without hurting your feelings, but he changed his mind about dating you. It happens. People change their minds after they've been with someone for a time period, when they realize the person they're with isn't right for them.
Did you feel satisfied only seeing him once a week to get really drunk together? Does that seem like a healthy romantic relationship to you -- getting drunk once a week together?
I don't think you look desperate and foolish because he changed his mind about wanting to be with you. I think you feel angry and hurt, which is normal.
Ask yourself why you settled? Because it sounds like you really settled, if you were ok with getting drunk with a guy once a week and that's all you two ever did.
Don't you think you deserve more from a relationship than getting drunk once a week with your boyfriend?