I guess I just keep doubting if it's a good idea. There seem to be a lot of similarities between him and my ex. By themselves, they seem pretty insignificant. Put together, they start to add up.

They both:
Have dark eyes and dark hair
Are currently in or were in the military (which I have to compete against because I can't have ever gone through anything difficult because it can't compete with boot camp and I'm just being a wuss.)
Have perfect pitch (it bugs me when someone has a distinct advantage over others without any effort on their part)
Have at least one cat (really don't want to compete with an animal for someone's attention)