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Kiya said:
i do not want kids - i do not want to become the monster my parents were.

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I have three kids, all boys, and I work everyday to ensure that they have a nurturing environment, are safe, and feel loved. It's ok that you don't want to have children but I wanted to share that there's more than one way to break the cycle and that watching my children grow in a good environment has been healing for me (an unexpected benefit).

Cyran0