The gender roles haven’t really gone so smooth for me too.
I remember I had a book when I was little that said the daddy and son do this and the mommy and daughter do this- totally traditional gender roles. I bet that book is no longer in print! Lol.
It’s nice how today, nothing is so clearly defined and old school traditional anymore.
Have you taken any music theory yet? That’s when my oldest quit playing seriously because he said he just couldn’t grasp the theory.
I wish I had learned to play an instrument. I sang and have a really good sense about music, but no education. I can’t read music. But I can tell a song from hearing the first note sometimes. Remember that show Name That Tune? I could have won that.