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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thank you, Divine. 
Yes, I probably am too nice. I am definitely a giver in my relationships and yes, to my own detriment. I need to find people who give and take, and who don't just take. Yes, she probably doesn't need me right now and that's why she hasn't written. Sad.  |
Well I am a giver too so... but I have ghosted before on here. I am sorry to do so but the person would not seem like the type to take it well.
For me there can be practical reasons such as, I am literally just too busy to maintain a long conversation and also, sometimes, after getting to know someone better I realize I am just not compatible with them.
Personally lately I have been pulling back. The first time my gut tells me I am in a user situation, I just drop and run.
99% of my online relationships have either been users or people that I had to drop because once I got to know them, really know them, they weren't like me at all.