All my life I've done this. As arousal increases, I tighten up all of my muscles and body, as if I am squeezing every part of me. Even with ejaculation, I've always held it in as long as possible.

I am transgender, born male and now on HRT for 4 years. I was just reading that this is pretty common for women, but I was surprised to discover that this is not so common among men. The idea that men generally go from arousal through orgasm without this tension is totally foreign to me.

Thoughts? True in your experience?
Just curious.