You are brave to make such a post. No, your son does not deserve to be called that. I do not understand this whole thing you speak of. I feel guilt for what we nice white folk have done to native americans as well as blacks. I have seen far too much of what you speak and it makes me ill. I wish I had answers and I do not. We are a murderous cruel people. I am sorry for your experience. I wish I could take it away. I wish I could protect your son from these statements. Or worse the events you mention.