My husband and I have hit a rough patch. By rough patch I mean he's saying he doesn't see a future for for us. I'm so confused because he was offended when I asked if he wanted a divorce. Said I'm still his wife and he doesn't want me out of his life. He's recently confessed to using marijuana daily for weeks now just to be around me. I asked if he wanted to try couples counseling and he said no. Tonight he started to get rude and defensive during a casual conversation when there was no call for it. I have nowhere to go if I leave. We agreed to work this out but tonight is leaving me feeling hopeless. He's supposed to be going to counseling to work on his personal issues outside of our issues, but I don't think he ever went to his first appointment. I feel so lost.