I see two. One (equiv of your Baby T, I think) knows about the other. Other (longer term by a year) doesn’t. It works for me, b/c I am terrified of having too-intense of a t experience with Long Term T, and both help with diff things.
My money, my time, my stuff. Sometimes, I feel the need to confess to longer term T, but I don’t...
I wonder if the intensity you had with your last T...which I completely relate to (T before this ‘main’ T) makes the idea of not having just one..appealing? And maybe that is ok?