I wanted to be low on drama. I tried to be mindful of everyone’s feelings and make everybody happy.

After this initial shock wore off, I still don’t feel any less strongly and have the same opinion moving forward.

When you have to put your foot down, you just have to. The consequence will be estrangement from my son.

Even if I had gone along and said nothing, I feel there would have been nothing but disrespect and conflict continuing in this relationship, coming from my son’s fiancé but through him toward us.

I feel she is being abusive to him, and he is doing whatever she wants.

Praying for some miracle for this girl to knock it off and we all get along... but knowing that won’t happen. So then praying for son to be strong and find happiness however that may be for him.