Thank you both!

I am a transgender woman and started hormones about 3-4 years ago. I never really thought about it either until I saw that article. I had no idea that not all women do that, but also no idea that men don't seem to do that generally. I also tend to hold my breath.

For me it's my whole body, but definitely more so on the bottom half. But I've also read about staying relaxed.

I just find sexuality fun and interesting to talk about. Part of the reason for posting this is to practice being more comfortable talking about it!