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Originally Posted by eskielover
Fuzzy.....I usually don't tell people what I need either. Basically I just observe & try to connect with people. I want them to be themselves without having stated expectations or boundaries. If a problem does come up ONLY then will I communicate the problem & what I see needs to be addressed....then discuss it. Otherwise the other person may just constantly wonder if they are pleasing me. What a horrible stress that would be on a friendship. If it turns out thst there are too many problems constantly occuring in a relationship then I have to decide whether it is worth continuing, whether to distance or end the relationship totally.
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Thanks Eskie, this is what I also try to do.
