It's admirable that you want to help your friend, kreg! However, I'd say it's her decision whether or not she wants to remove her mole! What makes you think that she may feel uncomfortable about it aside from the episode you've mentioned? Did she ever give you any hints about it? I'd suggest to just be honest with her and see how it goes from there! Just be kind to her! I'm sure she'll understand what you mean! I also completely agree with all the other wise, wonderful posters! Please keep us updated as much as you can and let us know how it goes! Sending many hugs to you and your friend, kreg!