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Originally Posted by Merope
I think sometimes I just want him to care a bit about me? I know it’s needy, I really do. But I want it so much it makes me sad that everything is always so boundaried and contained. I agree with boundaries wholeheartedly but they hurt when one is feeling vulnerable.
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Totally understand but take it from someone who had the care to a deep degree, be careful what you wish for. Not saying you will end up like me, not likely but the boundaries etc will come back to bite most of us in the rear at some point. Wanting care is normal and all. Just maybe don't want too much of it. Let us know if he replies ok