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Apr 12, 2019, 11:20 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by unaluna
Yeahbut, saying "its not for me" carries an implied "but i see why an ahole like YOU would like it!" So not so tiptoey as one might think! And it ends the conversation, which would be a goal for me.
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OMG! That's hilarious. I never read the sort of condescension in that before. Hmmm...I may actually use it now.
Honestly though, for me, I really do need to use the words that I don't like it. At least for now while I regain my voice in these matters. And if that means I have to say to the person "it's okay for you to like it and me to dislike it" and it's also okay for me to dislike a person and for a person to dislike me...to quote the FB meme I just saw "You can't please everyone. You aren't chocolate."
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