I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Fuzzybear! I agree with what all the other wise, wonderful posters have already wisely said better than I ever could! You've been given LOTS of great, wise, wonderful advice on this thread! I'd suggest to follow it as much as you can if you want to!I understand what you mean. It's a REALLY tough situation! I believe you just need to be honest with her and ask her to give you a little bit of space. Just try to be as much kind as you can be like you're always so kind to everyone! Hopefully she'll listen to what you have to say and understand what you mean! Please DO remember that you can't control how other people will react to you, you can JUST control how you speak and what you do! I'm sure you'll be able to be kind to her and to explain it to her in the best way you possibly can! Just be firm but honest with her and remember that however she reacts is NOT YOUR FAULT! You need to take care of yourself as well after all! It's just self-preservation! I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this, Fuzzybear