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Old Apr 13, 2019, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71 View Post
Yes 100%. I have noticed in the past month it has gotten progressively worse. He cut back before, was starting to work out so I thought things would get better. But now he’s back to his old ways but worse. He only cares about drinking not our relationship. I know guys like this lose people they love, and I feel for him but I put myself first. He has to help himself

That's very wise of you! Good for you to see and know this! He does need to help himself. No one can do that for him, his problems are not your responsibility or burden to solve. Yes, you have to put yourself first! Congrats on your progress!
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