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Originally Posted by Gymgirl71
Yes it is..I was rewarding bad behavior. Also, not related to his addiction, but the last month and a half, I was initiating most of our plans. Before that, he was....so being too available doesn’t help things..it’s not exactly showing I respect myself. I’m not even going to say anything about his addiction. I will show with actions that I refuse to accept it
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There's literally sober men out there in your city, who are single, who will be compatible with you and attracted to you, who will treat you with far more respect than this guy has.
He has some alcoholism and PTSD problems that he's intentionally not addressing. That is his responsibility to fix, not yours. So, don't enable him or even respond to him anymore. Just end it and free yourself up for a far better eligible bachelor who doesn't have serious issues he won't address, like this guy.
Put yourself first. You shouldn't have to work this hard with a guy. It should be more mutual give-and-take.