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Originally Posted by StreetcarBlanche
There's literally sober men out there in your city, who are single, who will be compatible with you and attracted to you, who will treat you with far more respect than this guy has.
He has some alcoholism and PTSD problems that he's intentionally not addressing. That is his responsibility to fix, not yours. So, don't enable him or even respond to him anymore. Just end it and free yourself up for a far better eligible bachelor who doesn't have serious issues he won't address, like this guy.
Put yourself first. You shouldn't have to work this hard with a guy. It should be more mutual give-and-take.
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Yes the ptsd is hard to deal with. Because his last relationship didn’t work and he gave up everything do now he’s super cautious with me, which I don’t deserve. I am nothing like his ex, so that isn’t fair. I’m not perfect, I know I can be kind of overbearing at times, but it’s due to my frustration which he doesn’t seem to get or understand.