Both of you have tried to get me comfortable with crying and being okay with it. Today oldest son said something that made me feel like the worst parent in the world. I have cried so much today including in front of other people. I wish I had one of you..in all honesty I wish I could email you T. You always reminded me and always found the words to remind me I am a good mom. Emdr T is good though, bit she hasnt been there through all the parenting ups and downs