PC is for venting too.. it isn’t hopeless. The future stretches ahead so many years. When the grandkids appear, the priorities will change. Also someday you may need all of the members of the younger generation to look out for you! Yes, get past the wedding with all its emotionality. It’s just one day vs all the years ahead. Try mindfulness to enjoy the beauty of the occasion- the flowers, the pretty dresses, the cake etc. I will use your good example to use patience in my own situation.