I'd give them tips on handling avoidant people like myself who constantly shut down. I can't imagine how frustrating it must be and I think they get to a point where they don't know what to do. I know what helps though, so I'd let them know
The touch was a nice idea. For me with long term T, it was the most healing thing in my entire life... but now without him, I miss it so much it's sickening so there's downfalls I suppose
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