I would also teach ts more about the therapeutic value of touch. I agree with stopdog that they should be straightforward in explaining what they are doing and why. My T has been pretty open when I ask her, but only WHEN I ask her. I also think they should be taught more about transference and attachment. Some Ts understand but many don't. They don't get how devastating it can be when we are extremely attached to them! They should also learn how to manage email and text better!