How do you feel about the dreams? Aside from your concern about what your fiance or others would think. How do you feel when you think about the dream or replay scenes from it...are they pleasurable? In the dream, are you enjoying what's happening?

I think it may be significant that you are about to embark on marriage while feeling that you have not explored your sexuality....perhaps that's the reason for the dreams? Your mind is wondering what else you might enjoy if you were free to explore? I obviously don't know. Just thinking of ideas. Have you ever found a man attractive? As well as women, I mean. If you looked up some photos of handsome male celebrities, does that do anything for you?

I would NOT recommend telling your fiance right away. I don't think that would go over well or help either of you. If the dreams are of interest or concern to you, you could talk them over with a therapist....there are sex therapists who specialize in such topics....find someone experienced and non-judgmental regarding sexual matters. If, after exploring the issue with a professional, you find that there is more going on here than just a few dreams, then you could talk to your fiance. Also, maybe you don't need to be in a rush to marry...perhaps take some time? Waiting never hurt anyone.

I've had a few sexual dreams about women but I'm happy in a committed relationship with a man. I think it probably depends on the person. If you feel there's an itch you need to scratch, that could be worth further exploration.

I hope you find the answers you seek!