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Originally Posted by Stuck1nhead
As the title says I’ve been having a lot of dreams featuring me and another man being intimate. I’m not really freaked out by these dreams since I have never had the chance to explore my sexuality. Which I probably never will because I’m marrying the first and only person I’ve ever been with. Now she has no idea about my dreams and neither does anybody else. I’m actually very afraid to talk about them with my fiancée. I worry that if I do she would want to leave me. I do find women very attractive, but these dreams have had me questioning my sexuality.
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I know I gave you a rather hard time on your question about marriage thread. But, after reading this, I think this could be the root of your concern. The only way to find out what your true sexual identity is, is to go out on a date with a man before you get married. Don't be one of these guys who marries a woman to hide their homosexuality; because their wife is their 'beard' or disguise.
The fact that you're afraid to talk to your fiance about your dreams tells me that you really aren't emotionally available to her, if you are afraid to talk to her about your dreams, which could mean nothing or could mean everything.
You can't marry another person if you can't be 100% transparent with them about who you are. People do of course, but then they get divorced, have affairs, or do worse things to their spouse.